Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Welcome to the world sweet boy!

Boston is almost 3 months old so I figured now is as good of a time as any to write his birth story!  I had a wonderful pregnancy!  It seemed to go much faster than my pregnancy with Addison.  Probably because I was busy chasing my girl and doing life. 

On Wednesday, April 3, I had my 38 week appointment.  I was measuring perfectly and was dilated 2 cm and 75% effaced.  I was happy to hear that everything was just fine because it was at this time when I was pregnant with Addison that my blood pressure decided to freak out and I was diagnosed with gestational hypertension.  I had been having fairly regular contractions for a week but nothing that was sending me into active labor.  I was hoping that Boston would make his debut soon but not too soon.  We had a family friend getting married that weekend and I really wanted to go!  Thankfully he stayed put and we were able to attend the wedding and make it back home without me going into labor.  I also wanted him to stay put because I love being pregnant!  I was starting to ache and get uncomfortable at times but I truly love it!  I wasn't ready to be done yet!

I made it to my 39 week appointment on Tuesday, April 9.  Everything was still looking perfect.  I was now 3 cm dilated and 80% effaced.  My contractions were still there and were doing their job but hadn't kicked me into active labor.  My doctor asked me if I would like to have my membranes swept so I said sure.  She told me that for 75% of women they go into labor within 72 hours and for the other 25% nothing happens.  So we left our appointment and went shopping for summer clothes for Addison!  I wasn't expecting anything to happen.

Before I put Addison to bed that night I told Kyle that I hoped Boston didn't decide to come in the middle of the night because I wanted to be able to hug and kiss Addison one last time before going to the hospital and her whole world changing.  I rocked her a little bit longer that night and hugged her a little bit tighter.  At 4:45am on Wednesday, April 10, Addison woke up and was crying.  I got out of bed and felt a little "pop".  I thought it was just my hips because they had been popping for a few weeks at this point.  I went into Addison's room and as I bent over to pick her up out of bed I felt it!  Although I wasn't sure if my water had truly broken or if I had had an "accident"!  :)  I told Addison mommy needed to go potty and I would be right back.  Kyle was getting up for work at the same time.  I told him I thought my water had broken but wasn't sure.  I hadn't experienced this with Addison.  He asked if we should call the hospital and our parents.  I told him to go ahead and get in the shower and I was going to put Addison back to bed.  I feel that God let Addison wake up so I could have those last precious minutes of her as my only baby.  I rocked her and sang her "Amazing Grace" at her request.  I hugged and kissed my baby girl one last time before we would become a family of 4.

By this time Kyle was out of the shower and I was positive that my water had broken.  At 5am we called our parents and let them know that today, April 10, was the day!  I called the hospital and let them know and told them I was going to shower and get ready before I came in.  My mom got ready and headed our way and Kyle's parents came to stay with Addison until my sister, Adi, could get here to stay with her.  At 6:15am I was ready to go and we headed to the hospital.

We got to the hospital and I was in my room by 6:30am.  My contractions were about 5 min apart and regular.  I got all hooked up and the nurse checked me and I was still 3 cm and 80% effaced.  I told them I wanted to sit on a birthing ball.  One thing I learned from my labor with Addison was that I wanted and needed to move around.  It was much easier to labor this way.  Like last time, we wanted our mother's there for the birth.  I wanted Kyle to be able to focus on me and the baby and not worry about pictures or anything like that.  It was such a huge blessing with Addison and again with Boston for them to be there.

At noon my doctor came and checked me and I was 5 cm.  Up until this point I had been laboring using the birthing ball and standing/leaning on the bed swaying back and forth.   I was amazed how different labor was when it comes naturally compared to being induced.  My contractions weren't nearly as painful and things were moving rather quickly.  I was praying Boston would be here soon and based on how quickly I dilated at the end of labor with Addison I didn't think he was far off. 

At 12:30pm things were starting to get intense and I asked the nurse to check me.  I was 7cm and at that time I asked for some Nubain for the pain.  Just like with Addison it let my body relax and by 1:00pm I was ready to push.  The nurse checked and I was 10 cm and they told me not to push!  Haha!  My body was doing it's thing all on it's own.  My doctor's partner was there checking on one of his patients so they called him down because they didn't think she would make it on time.  At 1:25pm my doctor walked in the room, I pushed maybe 3 times and at 1:28pm my sweet little boy entered the world! 

Just like when Addison was born there are no words to describe the incredible moment when they laid Boston on my chest.  I was elated that he was finally here!  The sweet boy that I had prayed for and waited on for 9 months was here in my arms.  Boston and I had some quality skin to skin time before I finally let them clean him up.  Boston weighed 7 lb. 4 oz. and was 21 in.  Other than Kyle and I, I wanted Addison to be the first person to hold Boston.  We let our family come in and see him and after a little while my sister brought Addison to the hospital.  What a precious moment watching my kids meet and showing Addison her baby brother.

Boston nursed like a pro and was super content.  All of our family was able to meet Boston and they all marveled at the preciousness of our new baby.  We had it easy in the hospital with Boston and it has continued to be that way since we have been home.  Boston is a happy, easy going boy.  He eats and sleeps well.  We have adjusted well to being a family of 4.  I love spending my days with both of my babies!  I can't wait to see what God has in store for his precious life!



 

 



 
 





Friday, February 15, 2013

The Magic of Pregnancy

Here is my view as I write this post!
 

 
I absolutely LOVE being pregnant!  Yes there are some things that aren't so glamorous.  Morning sickness, nausea, fatigue, ligament pains, stretch marks, and so on.  I knew all of that and more was possible when we decided to have another baby.  And I welcome it all!  It is true that they say the distinct memory of it all goes away when you hold that sweet baby in your arms.  I remember the first time I saw Addison and held her in my arms like it was yesterday!  I can't wait to experience that with Boston!
 
Pregnancy is truly magical!  As a mother you feel that instant bond the moment that little stick says "positive" and you realize that  you are growing a tiny human!  It's just incredible that by the time you even know you are pregant your baby's heart is beating and the brain and spinal cord are already starting to develop!  How awesome is that! 

As the mommy you get the priviledge of experiencing all of the magic of pregnancy first hand.  Embrace the fatigue cause that means that your body is working hard to nourish your precious baby.  The ligament pains aren't fun but that means that your baby is growing so your body is making room.  As much as we try to prevent stretch marks they are a beautiful reminder that you carried your sweet baby.  You get the joy of feeling him move around!  Before he has even taken his first breath you know his routines.  When he is most playful or when he is sleeping.  How awesome that we can know our babies before they are even born!

Of course it is wonderful to share the special moments with daddy!  The joy on his face when he feels his child move for the first time.  I will remember Kyle's excitement at feeling both Addison and Boston move forever!  The first time you both see your baby on the ultrasound is one of the extra special magical moments!

There are so many moments that I could name but these are the few that I think about daily!  I am asked almost every day how I am feeling and when I tell people that I feel great they look at me with shock.  Yes I am starting to get a bit uncomfortable at times but the magical moments over take the uncomfortable ones by far!  I am going to treasure these magic moments for the next 8+ weeks because I know that I will miss my belly and the gift of carrying my sweet boy!

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

And Baby Brother's Name Is......

Sadly I haven't kept up with the blog as I would have liked!  I always tell myself I am going to better at it!  Hopefully I will this time!
 
2013 is going to be an exciting year as we welcome our second child!  I am loving being pregnant with our little guy!  Other than some nausea in the first trimester, everything has gone perfectly!  We all love feeling him move around and watching my belly grow.  I am 27 weeks pregnant and can't believe how fast this pregnancy has gone compared to my first.

Addison has been wanting to tell everyone what baby brother's name is so we thought we would let her tell!

 
BOSTON DEAN MOCK
 
We love the name Boston and Dean is Kyle's dad's middle name.  We can't wait to hold this precious boy in our arms!